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Soul Urge of 5 …What You Desire To Be, To Have, and To Do In Your Life
“You love change. You live to experience as much as possible in the shortest amount of time possible. You appreciate the fact that life is short and are bound and determined to make the most of every minute you have on this earth. You have an inquisitive mind and a thirst for adventure that is only slaked by the collecting of unusual experiences and plenty of travel.”
Unfortunately, I’ve never left the country.
Unfortunately, I’ve never left the country.
“Your adaptable nature puts you at home anywhere. You are also a bit of chameleon that is able to transform its appearance and nature to suit the environment. You are a big believer in the phrase “When in Rome.. Do as the Romans do.” “
True, true, true. Blend in, be invisible.
True, true, true. Blend in, be invisible.
“Your closet is usually full of many costumes, as part of your soul’s satisfaction is to do a bit of \”play acting\” in real life.”
Sometimes I like to dress up and pretend to be a professional.
Sometimes I like to dress up and pretend to be a professional.
“You also possess the rare gift of detachment. Emotionally this grants you the ability to have a serial number of relationships throughout your life yet not suffer any kind of trauma or nasty consequences when one ends.”
In lots of ways this is good, but in lots of ways it’s bad.
In lots of ways this is good, but in lots of ways it’s bad.
“However your casual attitude towards relationships often devastates others who interpret your adventurous spirit as an unwillingness to settle down and put down roots.”
Did I mention I dated my wife for six years before I proposed?
Did I mention I dated my wife for six years before I proposed?
“This gives you the reputation of being “shallow” or a “heartbreaker” when nothing could be further from the truth. You simply don’t connect to others in the same way they do to you and you are frustrated by those who can’t seem to get on with their life the same way you are able to. In fact you can’t think of a bigger disservice to one’s soul than to give up one’s right to pursue their heart’s desire. You feel smothered by individuals who define love as giving up your heart and soul for another.”
Yes, yes, yes!
Yes, yes, yes!
“Your definition of love is more spiritually sophisticated. You believe that an expression of true love for another soul is the courage to let them go to pursue their own path.”
I can’t even decribe how I feel about this one. Right on!
I can’t even decribe how I feel about this one. Right on!
“Another one of your blessings is that it simply does not occur to you to be overemotional about things or create dramas.”
Nah, I just hold it all in.
Nah, I just hold it all in.
“You are a very difficult person to pick a fight with as you have a pacifist nature. You simply see ugly emotional scenes as beneath you and you are often long gone before a battle of wills is likely to take place.”
Wow, that’s way out in left field.
Wow, that’s way out in left field.
“You are also very accepting of different cultures and in particular, religious and political points of view. Unfortunately others see this omniscience as procrastination or as two faced as you have a way of “agreeing with everyone.” Your refusal to take a stand sometimes costs you dearly professionally.”
I am very accepting as long as others don’t push their ideals on me.
I am very accepting as long as others don’t push their ideals on me.
“This is often a mystery to you as from your point of view all you were doing is being fair. You intrinsically understand that without change there is no evolution. This is why somehow, many of you end up as being the catalyst for change in many situations.”
Such are some of the changes within our car club.
Such are some of the changes within our car club.
“Sometimes the change that your very presence provokes is constructive and good and sometimes you are the culprit that causes complete chaos.”
I can’t deny this.
I can’t deny this.
“However often your motivation for revealing secrets or destroying relationships is to clear out the old and create way for the new. You are also graced with an astounding amount of courage. Like water you have the ability to wear down obstacles like water in a stream wears down a rock over a long period of time. Although you may appear unpredictable or unreliable to others you are actually a very complex individual who often harbors a clear vision of who they want to be and how they want to live in the future.”
They knocked that one right out of the park.
They knocked that one right out of the park.
That’s all, folks!
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Being a fellow 5 Soul Urge, I just loved this blog entry. This one made me laugh out load – "You are a very difficult person to pick a fight with as you have a pacifist nature. You simply see ugly emotional scenes as beneath you and you are often long gone before a battle of wills is likely to take place."
Wow, that's way out in left field.
Loved your comments because they were right on.
Thanks,
Rhonda